This story
tells us something about LOVE &
LIFE.
My husband is S/W Engineer by profession, I love him for his steady
nature and I love the warm feeling when I lean against his broad
shoulders.
Two years of courtship and now, five years into marriage, I would
have to admit, that I am getting tired of it. The reasons of me loving him
before, has now transformed into the cause of all my
restlessness.
I am a sentimental woman and extremely sensitive when it comes to a
relationship and my feelings. I yearn for the romantic moments, like a little
girl yearning for candy. My husband is my complete opposite; his lack of
sensitivity, and the inability of bringing romantic moments into our marriage
has disheartened me about LOVE.
One day, I finally decided to tell him my decision, that I wanted a
divorce.
"Why?" he asked,
shocked.
"I am tired. There are no reasons for everything in the
world!" I answered.
He kept silent the whole night, seemingly in deep thought. My
feeling of disappointment only increased. Here was a man who was not able to
even express his predicament, so what else could I expect from
him?
And finally he asked me: "What can I do to change your
mind?"
Somebody said it right.... It's hard to change a person's
personality, and I guess, I have started losing faith in
him.
Looking deep into his eyes I slowly answered: " Here is the
question. If you can answer and convince my heart, I will change my mind. Let's say, I want a flower
located on the face of a mountain cliff, and we both are sure that picking the
flower will cause your death. Will you do it for me?"
He said: "I will give you your answer tomorrow...." My
hopes just sank by listening to his
response.
I woke up the next morning to find him gone, and saw a piece of
paper with his scratchy handwriting underneath a milk glass, on the dining
table near the front door, that
goes....
My
dear, I would not pick that flower for you, but....please allow me to explain the
reasons
further.....
This first line was already breaking
my heart. I continued
reading.
"When
you use the computer you always mess up the Software programs, and you cry in
front of the screen. I have to save my fingers so that I can help to
restore the
programs.
You
always leave the house keys behind, thus I have to save my legs to rush home to
open the door for
you.
You
love traveling but always lose your way in a new city. I have to save my
eyes to show you the
way.
You
always have the cramps whenever your "good friend" approaches every
month. I have to save my palms so that I can calm the cramps in your
tummy.
You
like to stay indoors, and I worry that you will be infected by infantile autism.
I have to save my mouth to tell you jokes and stories to cure your boredom.
You
always stare at the computer, and that will do nothing good for your eyes. I have
to save my eyes so that when we grow old, I can help to clip your nails
and help to remove those annoying white hairs. So I can also hold your
hand while strolling down the beach, as you enjoy the sunshine and the
beautiful sand...and tell you the colour of flowers, just like the colour
of the glow on your young face...
Thus,
my dear, unless I am sure that there is someone who loves you more than Ido...
I could not pick that flower yet, and die ..."
My tears fell on the letter, and blurred
the ink of his handwriting... And as
I continue on reading...
"Now,
that you have finished reading my answer, and if you are satisfied, please
open the front door for I am standing outside bringing your favorite bread
and fresh milk...
I rushed to pull open the door, and saw his anxious face, clutching
tightly with his hands, the milk bottle and loaf of bread....Now I am very
sure that no one will ever love me as much as he does, and I have decided
to leave the flower alone...
That's
LIFE, and LOVE. When one is surrounded by love, the feeling of excitement fades
away, and one tends to ignore the true love that lies in between the peace and
dullness.
Love
shows up in all forms; even in very small and cheeky forms. It has never been a
model. It could be the dullest and most boring form
...
Flowers,
and romantic moments are only used and appear on the surface of the relationship.
Under all this, the pillar of true love stands...
AND THAT'S LIFE!!!!